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Many are intimidated by bottoming, believing it will be painful or frightening. With proper preparation, however, virtually anyone can experience bottoming for themselves and have an amazing journey ahead, just look at those guys at BareBackPlus porn website – they are having such fun with gay porn bareback and loving it!
Though queer sex may often revolve around “tops” and “bottoms,” sexual desire is never as straightforward. Some individuals prefer bottoming sometimes and then switching back and forth between both options.
1. Wear the right gear
Bottoming can be an uncomfortable and potentially painful experience for gay men who are new to it, due to anal walls stretching in order to accommodate a penis, dildo or other sexual object. But taking some steps before your first bottoming experience could make the whole experience less arduous and painful.
Wearing a butt plug before bottoming can help protect against anal tears and ensure the walls can expand freely, as well as using lube to ease entry and heighten sensations. Furthermore, practicing swallowing on your own before trying it with someone else is also recommended.
There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding who can bottom, how to prepare for it and what the experience will feel like. Many of these myths stem from poor queer sex education or porn that doesn’t accurately represent reality as well as an inherent fear of sexual violence; yet almost anyone with the necessary tools and know-how can bottom safely; this guide demonstrates this fact.
2. Wear a butt plug
Some may be uncomfortable with the thought of something being placed into their anal hole, but a lubricated plug can feel great and with appropriate music and setting can even become very enjoyable.
Butt plugs are sexual toys similar to dildos but with smaller and narrower heads. They can be used alone or with partners and come in various sizes, shapes, colors and materials for individual enjoyment or penetration into anal sphincters.
Many bottoms use butt plugs to relieve anal pain. Although not necessary for everyone, porn stars often swear by them and can make the experience more comfortable.
Many bottoms like to douche before bottoming. Although not necessary, doffing can help flush away any build-up of waste that might have settled in their anal canals. You can purchase disposable anal douches at drug stores or sex toy shops and stock up on lube before bottoming.
3. Wear lube
No matter the anal canal is small and delicate; without enough lube it can become quite painful to bottoming. Water-based lubes absorb quickly into the anal canal while silicone-based ones last longer and feel good on it.
Gun Oil has long been a go-to product in the sex industry, but there are other options available at your local drugstore as well. Olive and coconut oils may provide additional skin soothing options if you are sensitive to chemicals.
Bottoming may conjure images of submission and femininity; however, homosexual men can also identify as bottoms. Indeed, some take on their roles more seriously as an expression of power and strength – known as power bottoms – which differ from traditional feminine tops in terms of controllability but still offer great sexual pleasure to both parties involved.
4. Don’t overdo it
As your initial experience in bottoming is something of an unknown quantity, it may be tempting to give everything you have when first bottoming. Unfortunately, doing this could result in severe pain due to having to expand the anal sphincter for something like a penis, dildo or another sexual object to fit through it.
As such, many tops prefer taking a gentle and slow approach when bottoming. Lube can also help ease into anal rings smoothly without painful squeezes or squeeze-offs.
Porn stars make bottoming appear easy, but there is a secret behind it all. Their technique combines systematic desensitization, pattern breathing, progressive muscle relaxation and sexual imagery to minimize pain while increasing pleasure.
5. Take your time
Initial anxiety among first-time bottoms may make swallowing something phallus-shaped hard, even harder for some men. Therefore, it’s essential that those planning their first bottoming take their time in preparation for their experience.
Practice beforehand can help. Use fingers, butt plugs, and sex toys to develop the necessary skill, or use vegetables that resemble phallus-shaped fruit as props – just remember it’s more than just physical penetration; remembering how your mind works through this process can be as vital.
Keep in mind that being attracted to bottoming does not automatically equate to becoming one. Many people prefer switching back and forth during sexual encounters; regardless of your choice of role play, consuming an abundance of fiber-rich foods will make bottoming easier and more pleasurable.
